Belated Introduction - Hi Y'all

Discussion in 'The Welcome Wagon' started by Swiss Mountain Dog, Aug 5, 2018.

  1. Swiss Mountain Dog

    Swiss Mountain Dog Medium Load Member

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    I suppose I should have started here a few months ago rather than just popping up like a Meerkat and posting in a discussion the first time. I've actually been lurking about, reading everything for significantly longer than I've had a real account.

    My husband went back to OTR driving last year after almost 20 years in the military - he had done some trucking for a few years before we met, but none in the 22 years we've been married. So I figured that I better learn about this industry since all I ever knew about trucks was remembering my uncle in the early 70s showing up to visit in his big rig, blaring the air horn and giving kids rides on the bumpers around the farm.

    I am a housewife running a little horse training thing and working with dogs in East Texas. We've lived all over the world, but always come home to Texas - roots are seven generations deep here.

    I just wanted to say hi and thank y'all for the amazing information here. Seriously, I have learned so much from this forum already and I'm having a good time too. I can actually have an educated, reasonable conversation with my husband about his day, his equipment and what his life is like on the road. (I had no clue that truck stops even had showers a year ago!) Most importantly, I now know what things he needs to make his quality of life better on the road because of this forum.
     
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  3. Kyle G.

    Kyle G. Road Train Member

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    Well consider this a belated welcome .

    I wish my wife was half as interested in this industry as you appear to be (I still love her anyway).
     
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  4. #wishfulthinking

    #wishfulthinking Light Load Member

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    Welcome aboard! My husband is almost as diligent as you are, learning about what it's like to be on the road. The first time he went on the road with me, he was excited and terrified at the same time. After a week in the truck with me, he had enough and was ready to go home. Then he worried about my safety while I was gone. Now he has a better grip on things and has even suggested going O/O. I used to be an O/O long before I met my husband and married him and I'm not to enthusiastic about doing it again unless I see some real positive change in regulations, insurance & freight rates.
     
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  5. Swiss Mountain Dog

    Swiss Mountain Dog Medium Load Member

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    I'm just horrified by all the micromanaging of every little detail of every single thing in trucking. I came to this completely blank, with zero previous habits etc and I have no clue how the owner operators keep up without a small staff. Just learning the Elog HOS rules and how to recapture hours and track which breaks are what and when...

    I'm hoping we can get it together with a dog sitter and a horse sitter so I can get out with him at least a week this fall. (Six horses and six dogs means I cant just bounce out the door) We have always traveled well together - week long road trips in various places around the world, but this is different. I can't split the driving and we can't just pull over because I saw something ridiculous on the side of the road. (Toad Lick Park comes to mind)
     
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  6. #wishfulthinking

    #wishfulthinking Light Load Member

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    Yeah, I can see where that could make it difficult. We have 1 small dog (she's attached to my hip...lol) and 2 cats. The dog is almost always with me in the truck and the cats can be left home alone as long as we leave them enough food/water and a clean litter box. My husband will go with me for a week because he misses me, then he remembers why he doesn't like being in the truck and wants to go home, 6 months later he forgot why he doesn't like it and wants to go again, every 6 months, rinse & repeat...lol
     
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  7. MACK E-6

    MACK E-6 Moderator Staff Member

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    Not all companies do the micromanaging thing. Usually only the bigger ones.
     
  8. #wishfulthinking

    #wishfulthinking Light Load Member

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    My company doesn't, that's why I like it ,they are good to me and they accommodate me whenever needed and I have lots of freedom. From my experience, if it's a Mega, they micromanage. If they are a smaller company they usually don't as much, but they usually don't have very good benefits. I try to stick with the middle sized companies. Big enough to provide good benefits, but small enough not to be a Mega micro manager. I drive for Oberg Freight Company currently. They aren't the best paying company out there, (we did just get a pay increase though) but the atmosphere and customers here are worth making a few cents less for a less stressful and friendlier environment, plus they have great medical benefits & good equipment. Most drivers have been here between 5-10 years, some longer, some come on board and leave right away. Every driver is looking for different things in different companies. What might make you happy, might make me miserable, and vice versa. I believe as drivers we need to research the companies we think we want to work for and be honest with ourselves as to what we REALLY want in a company.
     
  9. Swiss Mountain Dog

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    He's with a medium size company that is treating him well, has a good dog policy and has been straight up about the home time, miles, pay isn't a moving target of nonsense and the equipment is kept up and running properly. They dictate where to get fuel and have a range of where the MPG needs to be, but they leave him alone with idling time. He's not sitting at customers often at all - easily 9 of 10 loads are drop and hook.

    We did a ton of research on companies after he had put in a few months with Knight when he first started driving again. He had kept his CDL and Hazmat current all these years, but hadn't done any commercial driving so Knight got his feet wet again. But man, their sliding pay scale is insane.

    I'm glad to see women in this industry and to see many of them doing well. It's a man's world still, but ironically, it seems to be an equal playing field in some ways financially.
     
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  10. #wishfulthinking

    #wishfulthinking Light Load Member

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    Sounds like he's doing alright, the dictating the fuel stops & MPG would get on my nerves. My company offers us a generous bonus for getting good MPG to encourage us to get good fuel economy and just gives us a Comdata card and we can fuel anywhere that accepts Comdata. God bless him surviving his experience with Knight! I hear they are one of the bottom feeders of this industry. Too bad we don't have any freight routes in East TX, I know my company would give him a chance to get his feet wet if we did. We don't seem to get any further south than Missouri. We do have a few "different" rules at my company, it took me some getting used to but they actually made sense once I thought about it. There are several good companies out there, it just depends on what you're looking for in a company. Once he gets that "recent" experience under his belt, the doors of opportunity will start opening.
     
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  11. AfterShock

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    I find it difficult to pass up a two-for-one opportunity, so when I noticed two relatively new members meeting each other within one thread, ...... well, ..... I just couldn't resist saying
    Welcome to TTR.
    :hello2:
    Swiss Mountain Dog
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    Wishfulthinking
    :wave:

    If I've read correctly, Swiss MD keeps the home-fires burnin' --- which, by the way, IMO, is the harder job, --- and WishfulThinking is a Big truck truck driver with a stay at home hubby.
    I gotta say I find that interesting, --- a different twist on what's usually considered normal.

    That bein' said, I'm glad y'all found TTR. And even gladder that you decided to join. :yes2557:
     
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