Company constantly asking for favors, but won't get me home.

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  1. drivingmissdaisy

    drivingmissdaisy Road Train Member

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    You can't burn plastics. I have a burn pile but we can only burn yard debris.
     
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  3. MGE Dawn

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  4. Sons Hero

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    You bet I can burn plastic! I burn almost all the plastic junk we “produce”. All the dumpster gets is rubbish that flat out won’t burn
     
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  5. MGE Dawn

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    While I agree with the idea of scheduling your home time on the weekends, there comes a point where you can really start to use a company's behavioral patterns against them and request an M, T, W or R arrival such that the amount of time they're always getting you home late lands your arrival on that target F/S you actually want... just saying. The carrier isn't the only party that can play #### #### games
     
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    I always scheduled my time off for something important, like my Botswana Pygmy Lesbian Dance Ritual classes, not my trash pickup day. :D
     
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  7. drivingmissdaisy

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    Oh yea, to add to my OP, one time I took a load home that needed to deliver like two days later. They said they would find someone to come get it. Well lo and behold, they call me the next day, on home time, and tell me that they can't find someone to deliver the load, that I would have to do it. So I had to drive two hours back from visiting my parents, go get the #### truck, drive to Baton Rouge at 7 in the morning to get this load off my back, that took 2 hrs and 50 minutes (no money for detention until 3 hrs) and drive back home. I wasn't back home until past noon. I was so pissed I told them do NOT call me again on home time or their next call will include the location of the truck with the key on the seat.

    I'm tired of being treated like this.

    One time a while back I got word that a driver was sick at a rest stop and I needed to switch loads with him. They told me 3 times that they informed the driver to be disconnected from the trailer when I arrived because I was in such a hurry as his stopping for his sickness made his load late. I arrive and he's not disconnected or anything. I got there and I was about to chew him out about why he didn't disconnect like they told him to and I walk up to his truck and he's like passed out on the steering wheel. I disconnect his load for him, just tell him to pull forward after waking him up, and I grab his load and go. That dude looked like death. I didn't say anything about it. So its not like all I do is complain. I really don't.
     
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  8. Lennythedriver

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    The way I’ve worked this out with my company is I tell them you can keep me out and run me anywhere for as long as you want, up to six weeks if you like….but I get a ratio of days off. Meaning X amount of days out on the road equals X amount of days at home. This gives them total flexibility on how they run me. And that’s fine with me because I’m single. One issue with this set up is that it’s hard for me to schedule appointments because I never know when I’m going home and I never know exactly when I’m gonna have to go back out. So it often leaves me scrambling to try to set up things that I need to get done at the last second, which often doesn’t work out. I don’t like running a set weekly schedule, never have. But I do expect the same home time in the long run as those weekly guys get.

    OP. If you really feel your dispatcher is doing it on purpose, perhaps what you should do is just tell him next time well I guess I’ll have to run that thousand miles back to the yard empty. Lol. That will get his attention.
     
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  9. drivingmissdaisy

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    I could never have them decide when they get me home because I am also single and I have bills that must be paid. I live in a rural parish, and I still get bills in the mail. You can set up bill pay with the bank to send them a check, but you have to have the physical bill in your hand to do that and I can't do that out on the road. So I can't do more than about 3-3.5 weeks out without being home. And if I'm out THAT long, I require 5 days at the house as nobody is home to clean up my yard or anything and it is usually a nightmare when I get home. My property is the size of a football field and has 15 huge oak trees and a few pine trees and hundreds of smaller trees and it takes me 2 full days to clean my yard after I get home. That's before I even BEGIN to do things I need to do like appointments, etc.

    We won't even TALK about the nightmare I get home to if it rains the day before or day of my hometime.

    If I told my company get me home when they wanted, I'd never see home again. Every time they get me home there are hundreds of deadhead miles involved and them #####ing and #####ing about it before finally sending me home.
     
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  10. drivingmissdaisy

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    After you get home to find a pack of wolves has knocked over your trash can and spread 5 large trash bags of garbage all over your property, you start to make it priority.
     
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  11. Long FLD

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    I pay a friend a few hundred bucks a year so I can just toss my trash in the dumpster at his shop. Way easier than worrying about garbage day when I’m gone during the week.
     
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