do you trust your spouse while your on the road?

Some women like dirty old men, which is good for guys like me.

 

I like older women but I have found that now that I am 57, I am running out of older women.

I don't know why but there is just something about a woman with a walker. When they have just replaced the tennis balls on the bottoms....I just may have to hang out around the nursing home this weekend.

 

You have to be careful how you do it. Even though you pay the bills she is still a resident and is protected from an illegal eviction. Do it the right way like any landlord would do. Go down to the courthouse and have her served with eviction papers. Then she has 30 days to get out or the law will escort her out. States vary so search your state and the eviction procedure. Once she knows you are serious she'll move out.

As far as the relationship goes you are young. There will be more than one so don't feel there is only one fish in the sea. Looks are nice but doesn't set precedence. Beauty comes from within. Anyone can put on makeup but they can't fix what's on the inside. No one in this world is perfect. Many companies and businesses have gotten rich on that concept.

Don't be scared, be assertive. You're a trucker now, you have your wings. Fly and be free. Learn to enjoy yourself for who you are and the rest will fall into place. You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else. Jealousy is a disease and the downfall of many. It'll eat you apart. So leave it out of your life. It has never fixed anything but has made it worse. The right one you can do things together or do them apart and still be happy. The right relationship is a blessing but it's not so bad being single. There are many up sides to it.

What do you do when you buy something at Walmart you don't like? You take it back and get something else or get your money back.

Get rid of her!

 

I went through the same thing with my first wife. It drove me crazy on the road. Always wondering what she was doing because, like yours, she was a huge flirt. Well long story short she ended up cheating on me and we got divorced.

Now my new wife I have no worries at all.

Here's a tip if you wanna stay sane- you have to learn to separate home and the truck. When I'm on the truck I go into what I call work mode. I try not to think about home. But once I get home it's home mode and the truck is a distant memory until it's time to roll again.

 

Time to try something different since single women my age seem to always be broken lol.

 

don't worry about it, you cant miss what you cant measure. two things in this world that cant be worn out, a hogs nose and a woman's thang.

 

I was in West Memphis one night and there was a woman there that said she would love me long time for a small fee!

 

I met her; she said,"I think I love you, buy me drink!"

 

She is still there lol

 

you also said in another post that you were scared.

tell her you are broke. this trucking thing isn't really paying well, but your going to stick it out. It might be a few years of tough times, we need to get a smaller place. you need to really cut back. you can't buy her things for a year or two, but she should know you love her. etc etc etc.

she'll go on her own. if not, you've got a good one. i'm guessing she'll be gone though.

good luck