do you trust your spouse while your on the road?

Those blow up dolls are great if you fill em' up with helium.

 

If u don't trust her y are you with her...and if she wants to cheat she will find away to do it if you there or not

 

Yea but then they drift away from home like she is doing lol. Jk. Don't mean to be harsh but that is funny to me lol

 

You beat me to it! I was going to say call and tell her that payroll has screwed up or make up something to say money wasn't coming and ask her to pick up the bills for awhile. Skeez would be running for the door!

And for the insecurities about your looks: To quote "The Woman" in Sherlock "Brainy is the new sexy". We rarely need our menfolk to be underwear models. Honestly, a smart man who's self assured and self-possessed is always more attractive.

 

Sounds kinda like she's trying to keep your confidence low by the insults. She wants you to think you're ugly so you don't kick her out and move on. She's playing you until something better comes along. Find your confidence and show her something better came along for you and it doesn't include her
I've been there before and it's hard but when you come out of it you will be a better man. I been so mad out here before I could of beat the hell out of hulk hogan if I saw him with my girl at the time without question. (Probably not). Tell yourself you CAN have any woman you want and results will follow and I say that all within reason of course. I feel that way about myself and when I find one not interested I find one right behind her that is. It takes a long time to figure that out and believe in yourself but it's just part of life.
Don't give her any warning or you will come home to an empty house. That means don't give her landlord eviction cause all you will have left is what you take in the truck. I would try and sneak her key to the car before so she can't take that. Good thing it's all in your name cause if she does take it anyway you can report it stolen. I like the camera idea and I would try it peacefully without police and if she refuses then call the cops. She don't have anything to stand on since it's all under your name. If she asks why just tell her you can't trust her and she's a dirty ******* 2 bit ***** **** and she needs to get the **** out cause you're better than that and she don't deserve you.
Keep your head up. Grow some balls and believe in yourself and you'll be fine.
Good luck to you.

 

After reading this thread, I wonder if some of us are sounding like misogamists. I hope not, and once again I am impressed with trucker's wives, as they are also telling the op to drop her like a hot rock.

My feeling is that when you find a good woman, you treat her right, you spoil her, and give her all the love and respect you possibly can. That said, it seems there is a shortage of good men and women out there these days.

It's my opinion that both sexes should be a lot quicker to drop the losers, rather than continuing to put up with them. If they are dishonest, disrespectful, or just "not great" - kick them to the curb. In this case, the op's "lady" has treated him poorly, and I suspect had something to do with crushing his spirit. PLUS she shagged his neighbor.

Hey, just for fun I'll share a story I heard. A guy's girl cheated on him and she was a girl who had an impressive collection of sex toys and paraphernalia. Guy went to her parents house and dropped off the open box of her sex toys with a note, asking them to make sure she got them back.

 

If it were me, the first thing I would do is pack up everything I own and put it in storage...including your car.

Quit paying rent and tell the landlord you are moving or don't and just let them serve her with an eviction notice and forget about your security deposit. Call the utility companies and have the services shut off to your apartment. Don't call her, write her, email her etc. Change your phone number.

Get in your truck and drive away. She's already cheated on you once, she'll do it again.

 

Straight out of the Tom Leykis playbook...