do you trust your spouse while your on the road?

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  1. TwinStickPeterbilt

    TwinStickPeterbilt Heavy Load Member

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    I've watched 3 marriages over the years, 2 being my grandparents, 1 being my parents. Parents got divorced because my dads kind of an ######.

    One set of grandparents gas 60+ years in never a problem! he drove trucks his entire life. They trusted each other.

    Other grandparents are 50 years strong. He was gone 28 days at a time totaling 6 months a year. If you trust each other it's in problems.

    Personally I've lost 2 engagements thanks to trucking, wasn't a trust issue just I was gone 4 months straight trying to get home and couldn't so when I did get home she wanted out so we tried to make it work with me running regional and it didn't work..
     
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    I try not to judge anyone for I don't know all the details, but if it were me and she cheated on me, that would be the end right there. And you say she flirts would only be adding fuel to the fire.

    I'd say there's a good chance if she's cheated on you once she'll do it again. You don't need that kind of stress so don't put yourself thru it. You made the right choice to cut ties with her.

    Now....check back with her in a few months and see if she's cheated on someone else....if she has, well now you KNOW you did the right thing
     
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    I wouldn't bother to do even that...she proved to the OP what she thought of him when she banged some sap while he was tagging it. Why would he care? Let the next guy in line deal with it...maybe he'll take her on the road and pitch her out of the cab at some T/A in Memphis or Birmingham...sounds to me like that may be her calling in life.
     
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    hey everybody...

    I been hanging out with my grandmaw and enjoying some good home cooking. I'm still eating healthy and have dropped 8 pds.

    I decided to put my picture on my avatar so as not to hide anymore. My confidence is building a little each day.

    I'm not missing the exgf. but am wondering what she is going to do as far as a living situation. I'm sure she will be ok.

    I talked to a cute female driver last night online, she asked me out on a date. Should I go?
     
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    If she's hot I say go for it. Get back in the saddle.
     
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    As the world turns....
     
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    Lol I think I will go out..would be nice to talk with a sane female.
     
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    Don't fall in love so quickly this time or you will be right back where you started. Don't you two get cozy and decide to start running teams either.
     
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    Muahahaha. And a pot of gold at the end of rainbows. Would be nice lmao
     
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    That didn't take long. By the way, what's the website? Does she have a sister?
     
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