do you trust your spouse while your on the road?

definitely tell the wife.

Mnt Dew, if you want a faithful woman, start with the premise of courting. If you want the end result to be a faithful marriage, put that out first. The right woman will stick around, the girls will not.

 

Just walk away from all the drama and start over. No revenge; just walk away and don't look back.

 

I agree there.. Besides, they will both get theirs, Karma is a #####!

 

Here's a nice place to meet girls; about 1/2 block from my condo in China.

 

Once a cheat always a cheat. Kick her to the curb. Life is too short to spend your hours worrying about what's he's up to.

 

I have never ever had to worry about my wife, even though it takes not a special women but one who is realistic and willing to do what it takes.

My wife and I talked about this girlfriend cheating thing because one of her co-workers had a cheating boyfriend. She had a lot of symphony for the girl and I didn't. So I told her that unless there is a commitment, there is nothing more than a friendship there and that's about it. YOU can't cheat or having a cheating boyfriend/girlfriend without the commitment and that commitment isn't living together or having a kid or three but getting married.

that's funny!!

 

I hope that was a typo h2o. Op you remind me of my boy. He walks around with his heart on his sleeve. The women he is with treats him like crap. Runs him off takes money ect. He goes back like a whipped dog. We've talk to him a number of times but it just doesn't seem to sink in. What sucker! One day she will kick him to the curb when she finds another chump and his money. End this cycle of grief for your own sanity and health. Don't wait another hour. Make the call end it all. You will feel 100% better with that burden lifted off your mind. There is the right women out there for you. Good luck.

 

I still have never understood why anyone cares if there girlfriend cheats. Do you want to be with anyone that would prefer to be with someone else? Is a relationship a prison?

The idea of birth control made a lot of the reasons to demand fidelity invalid. STD's need to be handled with great care. But it isn't like women are property anymore. You do not have a contract with the girl as in Marriage and marriage doesn't really mean the same thing anymore.

Sex has become recreational. Would you get upset if she road the "Space Mountain" ride at Disney without you?

Is your relationship with your girlfriend about sex or is there some other deeper thing going on?

The bible talks about the mental aspects of adultery. If you want to be with another, you might as well be with them as the sin is in the wanting to. Until your girlfriend wants to change her ways, there is nothing you can do. Except it or move on.

As far as I know my wife and girlfriends don't cheat on me. And I am sure that I don't cheat on them.

 

That is a good one!

 

Your wife AND girlfriends????