Leasing companies that allow me to dispatch my self?

Swift, prime, super ego, and JB hunt I believe. Schneider in there too. If you lease 3rd party you can go Landstar.

 

How much experience do you have?

 

You're also not required to post. The minute you put your thoughts on a public forum, they become fair game. You're going to get the cold hard truth from experienced guys who've been around awhile. They aren't snide comments. They're truthful comments. What you're asking for is borderline impossible unless you get your own authority and work for yourself.

 

Big money in those south coast to coast runs

There's soo many steering wheel holders out here craving those kinds of runs all the way to bankruptcy. There's a reason they don't pay.

 

Money in the BANK! They’d be sipping umbrella drinks in no time!! EASY MONEY

 

Did we just see a flip to serious post? China do you have any options for somebody that just wants to drive coast to coast in the south all winter and avoid all the usual pitfalls of every day trucking? Oh and they want to pick the loads but not pay for maintenance and/or fuel on the truck? Ungoverned of course. Hahaha!

 

You’ve had a few. You will not find everything you are looking for. It’s up to you if you’re willing to try something that checks a couple boxes or just stay put. honestly your list of demands looked unrealistic and unreasonable.
I heard USA truck lets you pick your own loads as a company driver.