While some people will jump on here and say "More power to you" re: kids traveling with Mom and Dad permanently in a truck, I say don't do it. You have to remember something here. A truck driver's first responsibility is truck driving. Not tending to Junior and family matters. He needs to get his rest (Dad) and deal with all sorts of things while driving, such as shippers/consignees/traffic/dispatcher/police agencys/fuel stops etc etc etc. I know you think this scenario you present to us is your answer to money problems and a way to keep above water with the family intact. But, I doubt it will work for you.
new team driver question
Discussion in 'Questions From New Drivers' started by geosangel, Nov 20, 2010.
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If you're pulling those kind of hours as a CNA , your income will be greater than if you drove a truck. Plus better health insurance / benefits with the CNA job too. Trucker's benefits options are AWFUL. -
I do cna work as an independent contractor through a registry, so, no benefits, and when I break down my pay (flat rate per 24 hours) vs hourly, its much less than minimum wage. I don't want to sound like I'm ignoring advice here, and I do so greatly appreciate it, but this is a dream career of ours, and if I need to hang back and let the hubby go first while I wait for my son to reach the age, I will. He has been supportive of my schooling, it's time for me to give back. We are talking with Prime now, seeing what we can work out, and hoping for the best. I may sound stubborn, and I don't mean to come off that way. After all, if I didn't want advice I wouldn't ask. As a caregiver, I know I'm burned out and need a break, so taking that break while hubby signs on with a company, and waiting this period of time out might just work out. In the mean time, I am still going to school for my cdl and nursing all the same, in this economy you have to do what you can. I believe things will work out, sometimes bumps in the road happen for a reason. One day soon I'll be a driver, until then, I'm happy to let hubby take the reins while I concentrate on school and our future.
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It's not a good idea to do a lease option fresh out of school. You should drive as a company driver or team for at least a year to see if you really like it. There are many, many things to worry about coming out of school let alone leasing a truck !! Get plenty of experience first .... don't rush into anything !!!! There is a reason why they want you to lease their truck ! And most likely it's to their advantage... not yours !!
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We just were speaking with Prime, who is offering a team driving option (after hubby is out there for a while) as company drivers. That is what we're wanting. We're negotiating a plan for all of us to end up in a truck together, but it will take some time and hubby has to have a certain number of miles under his belt, in all 48, as conditions to be achieved first. I will also go with a trainer (not hubby) who is qualified to teach and let me learn the things I need to as well before we would go as a team. They are willing to let him have some home time ( a few months) with the little one while I do this in preparation, which is really nice. This will be a written plan with the company, with the goal being a good husband wife team, both with experience before we would attempt to go out with our son. As for all of the companies I have spoken with, this one seems to have a logical plan and realistic expectations of drivers, but then again I'm just a student, what do I know, lol. Both hubby and I want good experience before we team anyway, for safety sake. Every company is different, maybe we found a good fit, who knows. We definitely are not going to rush in to anything, and would rather drive as a company team for awhile while we learn the trade.
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I seriously cannot believe that you are considering taking a 9 year old out on the road with you long term. I am sorry, but your resposibility is first and foremost to provide your child with the richest learning/nurturing environment possible. To deny him school, friends, stability, privacy, and even expose him to the life of a trucker is pretty harsh. I can totally understand your desire to earn a living that you feel will provide for him, but you must understand the position he will be in while you two are earning that living. If you aren't driving, you will be sleeping most of the time. He won't be, and it will be up to the parent that is awake to deal with him, and that would be the driver that shouldn't have any distractions, let alone keeping a 9 year old occupied.
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Most companies are not going to allow you to take your son. If they do it will be during summer months only. Personally I think it way to dangerous to be taking the kids on the road with you. Plus the poor kid is going to be basically locked in a closet while you guys are driving. Running as a team means that your truck will rarely be stopped. We used to take our dog with us and I always felt is mean to keep her penned up in a truck for that long. As a team one of you is driving while one of you is sleeping at all times. What is your kid going to do? When you first posted I did not realize you had children. I would seriously opt out on the truck driving career until your kid is 18 and can stay at home by themselves. It is really not a good idea! Hope you do not take this as a negative post against you but as an experienced driver I know exactly what you will be getting into. Another huge factor is that a lot of shippers and receivers do not allow children on their premises. You cannot not pick up a load because of this and you cannot leave you child outside the gates while you are getting loaded or unloaded. DOT is going to give you a really hard time about this too and you are at risk for getting your child taken away by protective services. Please reconsider!
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I have taken into consideration all of the above. I understand where you coming from. What I am looking into now is otr for the hubby til he gets enough experience to get hired local or regional, and, local for myself, ie bus or shuttle (I have a few connections that might be able to help me out there so, home every evening). Either way I'm still doing my nursing online, and looking for local employment as well. I know hubby will be driving otr for at least a year, and I'm hoping by then we will be in a better position both financially and scholastically. Either way I will be home schooling my son, that is a decision that was encouraged by the county here, (the school system here is horrible to say the least.) Oddly enough the county also encouraged all of us to pile in a truck and do the otr thing for a few years, which took me by surprise because as Chompi said, one would logically think a child in a truck is an easy mark for cpi. So I have had some mixed emotions as far as my child. By that I mean, one would have to really see our situation ( I wont go into all of it here), way the options, and come up with the best decision to fit our familiy (our child included) situation. When you have a hailstorm of rough luck, a bad economy, ever growing bills, and almost no marketability, and someone comes along and says, "hey, why don't you guys do this, we'll foot the bill and it will fix all of the above problems, all you have to do is sacrifice 1 or 2 years of otr, and it could be a great experience." well, it makes you think, long and hard about what you should do. I've stated before that I believe it's time to let hubby take the reins and run with this opportunity, and, as much as I would love to go with him, I do believe this is one of those times I need to step back, hold down the fort, give my son the best education I can, continue mine, and work locally. You never know where you'll be a year from now, but I have some choice as to where I won't be. I won't put my son at risk of being hurt, neglected, or worse, end up in the hands of cpi. That will not happen, period. So, long story short, I want to thank each one of you who posted here, you have given me plenty to think about, and that is why I'm here, to gain insight from experienced people. I will still be on here, as I'm still going to get my cdl, so I'm sure I'll have questions, and hubby will be otr, so I'll be talking to people about his journey as well. You guys are great. Thanks
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While I think I'd lose my mind if I had a child on this truck, and I too am concerned about the social needs of the child I'm going to give you a different bit of advice.
There are people who have their kids on trucks. In fact I think I recall there is a group. I believe you can contact them through "women in trucking". You might wish to talk to people who've tried it both successfully and un-successfully.
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I love to research everything so I'll go check it out now as well. It would be interesting to see what the statistics are, and get some insight from them as well. Either way, I'm not going out otr for at least a year as it stands for now, but it won't hurt to learn a few things and gather some more info. Thanks
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