Where is everyone #5

Two main reasons:
1. The ‘Forbidden Fruit Syndrome.’ They want what they can’t have. What they can have, they will not value. If you do everything that they say they want, including stupid pet tricks (doing things to make her laugh or entertain her), you will get the Friends speech. If you don’t give a Fup about what she likes or dislikes or her, you can pound her like a rag doll. She will say, “I want a man to love me and treat me good and adore me”, but will offer to drink the bath water of the guy that will drag her arse through the mud.

2. Don’t be nice. There is a difference between being kind and being nice. Nice people are seeking a reward. That reward is usually the Friends speech. They tell you to dress a certain way, and act a certain way and the girl of your dreams will notice and fall in love with you. So guys will buy this, wear silly clothes and get stupid hairstyles, or try to go to the gym to attract women. The problem with this is if you do this and actually get the girl, you will revert to your default setting. And she will hate you.
Kindness is the evidence of great strength, especially in a woman. If you can live in Hell and still be a kind person, you were completely unaffected by your environment. You can be kind. DONT be nice.

(Example)You see a woman on the side of the highway with a flat tire, trying to figure out the whole donut and scissor Jack thing. If you stop to help, that’s cool. If you stop to help her in hopes of landing a date, you may get a date or two, but she will realize that you are nice and you will be the person she calls at 2am to cry on your shoulder with fresh pickle breath because Thuggy told her to GTFO after he dropped his load. Your reward, Niceguy, is fresh pickle breath. That will also be your best chance to kiss her.

“But Six, how did Thuggy get her in the first place?”

She offered Thuggy friendship and he told her that he doesn’t want her friendship he just wants come cookies. So she gave him some cookies in hopes of friendship and Thuggy told her to GTFO.

“So, Six...what I have to to get a girl is act like I don’t GAF, right?”

Wrong. No act. Whatever it is you do, do it for yourself. You don’t go to the gym to get a girl, you do it for you. You don’t buy a car to impress a girl, you buy it for you. You don’t behave well mannered to get a girl, you do it for you. Be you. Do you. Thuggy can walk around like TPT and pull girls because he’s being him. He’s not trying to pull girls.

 

Forgot to mention...

Most guys start off on the wrong foot because when a woman comes around, they start Bootysniffin. Especially in this industry. Woman comes around looking like Jerome Howard in drag and watch drivers crowd around in hopes of getting a whiff. Pathetic. There is no winning to Bootysniffin, just various degrees of losing.

The standing in line, the push-ups and the foot race...all stupid pet tricks. Never under any circumstances do the Bootysniffin thing. I don’t care what she looks like.

 

Well you’ve definitely got me on dating advice and I’m pretty sure I’m the “nice” guy you mention, but not an act

 

That's something I've noticed way back in high school. The girl you aren't really interested in, kinda ignore, make excuses to get away from etc. She'll worship the ground you walk on because she is infuriated by the fact she cannot get you.

Think Ethel and Jughead.

 

So I know you’re not supposed to leave your truck at lets say, a Pilot or Loves overnight, but I got permission to park it at a Valero with truck parking; yay or nay? My uncle offered to pick me up and do my reset at his house so I’m trying to see if I can make that happen lol

 

Lock it down and have a good time out of the truck.

 

What will happen if he decides to haul a white volvo and reefer . ?

 

Pull the window curtains and how's anyone going to know if you're inside or not?
If you're in a sketchy area you should maybe relocate if possible whether you're inside or not. That goes back to Sixes mention of predators. Which is a thing, especially in sketchy truck stop areas....
Safety first

 

Lol good idea I planned on doing that; my aunt can cook very well so I’ll get a good meal tonight!

 

Hahah, I guess I will get him little flippy floppy’s and a kids track suit for Christmas next year.