Who's at fault? Am I just selfish?

OK,This is just my opinion, but with a new born on the way?, I think you should wait, Being a newbie, you will be required to be gone 4-5 weeks at a time, leaving her to handle everything on her own, In my mind thats not fare to your wife, If you truely what to try a career in trucking?, It will be there in a couple of years,If you already have chidren?, you should understand the responcablilty, you said you been studing for the test, are you trying to get a CDL with out a school?, Do you have access to a truck w/ someone to teach you?, if so, continue doing this, If you can get a local job driving, then Ok, just dont leave her alone, Just my thoughts, good luck

 

Hormones .....

All women have them. And they have been scientifically proven to cause insanity, even death, in males.

Wait 6 months, and try again. But wear a cup this time.

 

and i hate guys calling other guys dudes, grow up, get with the program

 

You been drinking again Everett?
Calm down fella!!!!!!

 

If you have a Y chromosome you are wrong.

It is a womans perogative to change their minds as often and with as little notice as they want.

Your choices are either stick to your guns, or don't. Each one has consequences. Only you can weigh the cost/benefit of the choices.

My choice was to get my training, stick it out for a year, then with experience in my back pocket move on to another company that will have me home on weekends. Of course I left the wife and only have to deal with a girlfriend and no kids of my own.

 

Fix up the garage or build a man cave in the basement.

 

I'm glad we're not you!

You're the man, take the punishment- it's your job.

 

Yes.

At this particular time, --- Yes.

If doin' what your wife requests makes you unhappay, but you want to remain married, --- Yes.

If bringin' it up before the baby is born isn't workin', --- Yes.

How can your wife explain her passion to have you near, w/o you assuming she's bein' irrational?

I assume a promise was made to honor and obey, ---
For richer or poorer, ---
For better or worse, ---
To cherish in sickness and in health, ---
As long as you both shall live.

Who was that promise made to?

If your girlfriend is aware that you left your wife, ...... and she's content with the present situation, ...... it's not likely that she'll disagree with you about anything too often, ..... if at all.
Hellofa deal.

I don't worry 'bout none of that sheepdip from my spousal unit.
NopE!
Picked 'er up real cheap awhile back, --- durin' a goin' outta business fire sale to avoid hefty taxes. I was lucky to find 'er in such good shape, --- and I'm here to tell y'all, she ain't changed a bit in 30 years.
Still has an hour-glass figure and not a wrinkle one anywhere on her well toned body. Actually, truth be knowed, --- physically, she can whoop my buttox. But if she's aware of that, she ain't lettin' on 'cause she always lets me win.
And best of all, there's a little spot right at the base of her head that if pushed just right, --- triggers
the switch that shuts 'er down.
Is that perfection, ........ or what?

I wonder how many Stepford wives were made, .....
and how many still exist?
The way mine's goin', she'll be passed down to the next generation(s).
But, ..... so far I ain't had no luck knockin' 'er up. Not sure if it's me, ......... or my spousal unit, ....... to blame that on. I just tell folks it's her problem. If she wants to argue 'bout it, .......
I know where the switch is.
What's not to like?

 

Hey guy Kids and wife come first no matter what! I had the chance of a Lifetime I was going to the Blue Angels as a mechanic went and met the capt. the whole bit My wife was saying go for it! And I spoke to one man who told me he missed the first year of his son's life and it was actually his only year! right then I changed my mind and have never looked back. Family first you made the commitment now stick with it for a bit let things settle down and then go for it. you'll be better for it. Just my 2 cents

 

I am on my third marriage. I also have two daughters and a step-daughter.


It is always my fault.


My oldest daughter and I were having a heated disagreement one day, and several minutes into it, she pauses and yells "SEE? I'VE EVEN GOT YOUR TEMPER!" at me.

So, yes....it is, was, and will be your fault.