Questions for married guys

How much you going to owe if you divorce.

 

Does she function well when you’re not there? Is she able to problem solve for herself? Are the bills paid on time and the house kept up? Does she complain about you being otr?

 

1) do not live your friends life, you cannot go back

2) do not use the divorce rate as an excuse

3) you never have to explain anything, you "talk" things over, as she will be concerned for the home buget, which frankly, women are better at that, then us guys.

4) as far as not getting married in Texas, many states have the divorce laws that everything is split 50/50

5) if you continue to look at your friend, who by the way is still single, you'll be 80 years old........and still single yourself.

6) stop looking for excuses.

 

There's probably a good reason why he's still single.

My first marriage didn't last because of immaturity, drugs, booze and women.

My second is going strong approaching 34 years due to maturity, no drugs, no booze and no women. Best thing I ever did.

 

You two should have a sitdown, maybe with some trusted others or both parents/trusted others are alive.

Ask each other, “If it came to it, would I give my life to save this person.”
If the answer is “No.” it’ll never work.

But you can’t walk a mile in someone else’s shoe.