do you trust your spouse while your on the road?

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  1. Mtn. Dew

    Mtn. Dew Light Load Member

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    i have a difficult time being on the road because i just don't trust my girlfriend. she is a huge flirt, which she knows I hate that, but she continues to flirt even tho it makes me very insecure.

    i worry all the time while on the road, wondering what she is doing or who she is with. she's cheated on me before and i took her back. i feel like i'm too ugly to get anyone else.

    i'm not sayin that i want to stay at home to watch her because i enjoy driving but wondering if she sleeping with other people while i'm gone does get to me sometimes.
     
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  3. Cottonmouth85

    Cottonmouth85 Bad Influence

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    Shake'er off driver. Lifes too short for that stress. Be free out on the road get on a dating site and have a girl in every town. You could take her with you but I'm sure that would be a train~wreck.

    Bottom line... can't trust her, don't need her. You'll trust the right one.
     
  4. TomOfTx

    TomOfTx Road Train Member

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    Girlfriend does not equal spouse. If you love her, set her free. If she comes back to you, it was meant to be.

    How can you expect a woman to be faithful to you when you have not taken any vows to commit yourself to her? Just saying..... :)
     
  5. Cottonmouth85

    Cottonmouth85 Bad Influence

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    I do not condone what Tom said.
     
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  6. jungledrums

    jungledrums Heavy Load Member

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    there's someone for everyone! I've been in your shoes...being with someone I didn't trust and it was hell. I'm so glad to be out of that situation.

    Set her free, she can do whatever she wants and so can you. The right one will come along, usually when you least expect it.
     
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    jungledrums Heavy Load Member

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    one more thing...

    don't marry someone you can't trust.
     
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  8. EverywhereMan

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    Come on brother. Figure out a way to boost your confidence. You have enough on your plate without worrying about what she is or isn't doing when you're away from home. Try eating healthy and finding time in your day for thirty minutes of exercise. Read more. Worry about bettering yourself and you'll find your quality of life improve slowly but surely.

    As for the cheating thing, I would never take someone back after that. It's your own decision, but it's clearly playing a role in your thought process. Register for a couple of dating sites, speak to some new women and maybe even meet a couple of them if you have time. Things will only get better but you have to put the effort in first.
     
  9. EverywhereMan

    EverywhereMan Medium Load Member

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    It's funny, you might think you're ugly but you will find a woman who thinks the complete opposite. I have a friend who isn't great looking but he always manages to bag a beautiful girl. Personality is key!

    Now, back to the manly side of trucking. Where's my skoal can, Johnny Cash CD and tire thumper at?
     
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    jungledrums Heavy Load Member

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    that's true! A guy with a good heart and awesome personality can get any woman he wants!
     
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  11. Wooly Rhino

    Wooly Rhino Road Train Member

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    I have a real problem with this issue as I do not believe in fidelity. I wish I could tell you that she will be home sitting by the window waiting for your return but chances are she is going to be more like I would be.


     
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