Sad situation in L.A.

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  1. GuysLady

    GuysLady Trucker Forum STAFF Staff Member

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    When I set out to see more of the world, this is not the kind of thing I needed to run across.

    Yesterday morning, we were outside a reciever's yard, my husband was inside, when someone knocked on my window. This is not a good neighborhood. (Long Beach Blvd, and South 24th.) It's full of run down shops, prostitutes, drug dealers.. not somewhere I would normally be found. But when I saaw who knocked, I was shocked. There stood this kid. So I rolled the window down a little. And he asked me for "a little change", because he needed to buy milk for his sister. I handed him $2 in quarters, and he called out to "Samantha". And from over near the back of the tractor comes this TINY little girl!! (I thought she was 4 or 5.)

    This is their story..

    Their mother likes to drink and run around with her "boyfriends". I'm not sure whether or not she is a hooker, but the way he said "boyfriends" sure makes it sound that way.

    They have been in and out of foster care since he was 10. (He's 15 now.) She was only 3 the first time "Mommy Dearest" kicked them out! Every time they have been in Foster Care, they have been separated and allowed little contact with each other. And then they are returned to this woman who tosses them out again after a few weeks. He is terrified that one day they will return Samantha to their mother, and she will toss her out before he gets back.

    The little girl was clean, in semi-decent clothes, wrapped up in a man's flannel shirt. His jeans were ragged and dirty. He was wearing a tank top. When I asked him where his warm shirt was, he looked at his baby sister. So I knew where his good shirt was.

    When they left the truck, they left with $10 in change, 8 apples, a bunch of canned food, and a good flannel shirt!

    Proper authorities have been contacted, thru round about means. But I cannot get these kids off my mind. I wanted nothing more than to take them home with me. All I could see was my 14 year old trying to protect one of his cousins...
     
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  3. Truckerjo

    Truckerjo Road Train Member

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    Ya that is sad.... people like that should be ashamed...
     
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  4. Lilbit

    Lilbit Road Train Member

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    That is definitely a sad tale. You did a good thing there too. I don't see how any mom could treat their kids like that. I just don't get it.
     
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  5. GuysLady

    GuysLady Trucker Forum STAFF Staff Member

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    I don't get it either. The urge to just gather them up, and take them with me was so strong. If it were not for the fact that someone could cry "kidnapping", would have! I just cried when they left. There was really nothing I could do! So I did all I could and let them go.

    To be honest, that young man is something to be proud of in today's world. He loves his baby sister and it shows. SHE was wearing his only warm shirt. SHE got to get the first apple from the bag. And when they walked off, SHE was carrying the bag full of plums. The lightest bag. He had everything else.

    SHE goes to school every day. He told me he makes sure of it. He gets whatever odd jobs people will give him.

    How many young teenage boys would sacrifice so much for someone else?
     
  6. Lilbit

    Lilbit Road Train Member

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    He is obviously doing a good job of looking after his sister as best as he can. I hear ya on wanting to take them in. I'd probably have been the same way.
     
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  7. leannamarie

    leannamarie "California Girl"

    There are good boys (and girls) like that out there, willing to protect someone that they love at any cost. But they don't make the headlines. I hope that you meet up again with them in your travels and this time you are able to take them home with you. I'm sure they won't soon leave your thoughts.
     
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  8. Moose1944

    Moose1944 Light Load Member

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    God has blessed your heart. You are very caring. Like you, I am impressed that a 15 year old boy would look after his little sister like that. You did it right.
     
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  9. sweezly1

    sweezly1 Medium Load Member

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    i just feel so sad for those kids. i was crying while reading the post, and i am sure i wont be able to get them out of mind for a long while. i am so thankful that you were there for them.
     
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  10. RBPC

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    I hate situations like this. You do what you can but still feel a need to do more but can't. I couldn't post the first time I read this...

    I hope everyone that comes into those children's lives, like you, are what they dream of at night & that comforts them while they sleep. I am sure they have little, otherwise, to comfort them.
     
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  11. GuysLady

    GuysLady Trucker Forum STAFF Staff Member

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    He seems to hang out around Gold Star Foods, in downtown Los Angeles... he says the truck drivers are far more generous than anyone else out there.

    These kids wander through my dreams, and I wholeheartedly wish I could just bring them home with me....
     
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